End of MAY

Lame x update blog..sory ye reader sekalian (cz tgk kt feedjit ade org visit blog aku..tq sume).
First nk pasal ble Abg Chai dpt gaji mesti dapat mkn makanan sdp..iaitu di Istana Bamboo,MMR2.
Ini adalah sedikit pemandangan di dlm kawasan Istana Bamboo..cantik..suasana perkampungan sawah padi..ble mlm sure penuh siap klw nk tmpt dok special cm tmpt akoo dok ni kne wat reservation awal2. Desert dia mmg 1st claz..
Korg nmpk pe makanan 2? Itu adalah pulut mangga sedap gle samapai akoo nk order lg..tgk Abg Chai yg melupakan akoo krena Pulut Mangga..huhu
Ni lg pic yg akoo nk attach kn lg utk tatapan korg..
Pic sedikit blur krena hp ku yg xmampu lg mencapai megapixel nye!huhu

Saya sgt MOODY

xtau la nape arini berperasaan begitu..ini adalah kerana :

• pagi2 lg Abg Chai da sms.."Morning,bee xbley nk cuti sok cz rmai staff da amik mc secare tetbe" - dia nk sgt rekod dia cantek even 10 jun 6t nk resign dr ctu,dia terlampau pk kn org len-
  
• ahad ni ada exam IT n arini akoo bwk nota IT utk study kt tmpt keje (hehe..jgn bgtau bos akoo) but masalahnye akoo bce buku lgsg xmasuk kepala.
• akoo xdpt nk selesaikn tugas akoo iaitu handle gaji budak2 ni n terpakse pass kt org len utk wat kerana sok akoo amik study leave -akoo xske org len wat keje akoo but nk wat cmne 'share is care'
• akoo susah ati cz sok akoo kne wat sume bende sendiri cz Abg Chai xdpt cuti -g ICCE mnta surat2 tu,g nek bas sendiri.blk pon kne sendiri..sume sendiri! nape akoo biarkn Abg Chai manje kn akoo sgt sampai akoo xbley handle personal thing sendirian???
• akoo xdpt join bdk2 opis nk wat party cz akoo ada exam..n xdpt giv sumthing b4 nex week kt dorg - sory korg,akoo pon lupe nk prepare awl2
• akoo hangin dgn 'jantan2 keberret' kt opis ni yg sgt ske nyakat akoo..klw yg biase2 tu xpela but ade yg lbh2 sgt tu wat akoo sgt xselesa..-nyampah!!!!!

1st SHOPPING!!

Susah sebenarnye ktorg nk fix time utk bende2 cmni..iaitu shopping!! Mmg target nk cr bedsheet set. Mummy soh beli kt JAKEL je but kami xminat sgt la cz cm xkne dgn kami yg ske English style..huhu.


Nk cr di mana ya??

• "Ikea?? bley tgk bedroom set skali"- Abg Chai
• "Sunway Piramid la cz teringat kn butik bedsheet yg comel2 tu" - Akoo

Kt IKEA Abg Chai da terpikat dgn bedroom set yg serba putih yg berjumlah lbh rm3k..itu suda terlbh budget dr pe yg kami target kn..but akoo tau klw Abg Chai ske mesti dia akn usaha kn. Bez rse nye dpt pkai IKEA cz brg2 dia sgt unik & fleksibel. But kt sne xbli pe pon,cukup la dpt survey bedroom set..ada rezeki kami bli ye cik IKEA cz cash ni cukup2 je nk bli bedsheet.

Aku merengek2 nk g Sunway Piramid gak..lbh krg 30mnt perjalanan sampai la ke destinasi kami. Trs cr butik yg akoo nk g tu..tgk harga nye cecah rm500..dlm hati,wah mahalnye. Abg Chai sudah geleng2 kepala..sory la syg,xtau plak mahal. But miracle berlaku. ble cik adik manis ckp "kak klw jd member bley dpt 70% diskaun but kne byr rm35 member for entire life" aku dgr trs tersenyum..Abg Chai biasela dgn aktiviti nye yg akn pegang fon mengira harga. "bley gak ni..pilih la" - Abg Chai. "ok (dgn gembira nye)" - Akoo. Sume yg akoo plh dpt la harga yg kami da budget kn. Bez sgt cz ni 1st shopping kami n "1st shopping da pk psl bilik tdo!ahaks" kne perli dgn mummy sejibik.

Minggu ni di sebabkn xde claz so ahad akoo dpt la rest..in my mind nk kemas bilik. Ble kemas bilik tetbe akoo rse serabot sgt cz tetbe kaki almari ku patah. Aduyai..cmne ni dgn bju ku yg terlalu byk??mmg mummy da soh kluakn bju yg da xmo pkai but still byk..poningnyo! Now still serabut..xkn nk beli almari duloo..erm??

Disebabkn akoo masih dlm proses mengemas bilik..akoo ltk je Aussino tu kt hall lg2 akoo tggl berdua je dgn sis minggu ni so xde la mengacau sgt ltk kt luar. Ptg tu akoo klua jap nk cr

ni percubaan pertama produk ni..kte try dulu yea!huhu Sampai di umah mummy sudah balik dr penang dgn lg 2 buah kete konvoi..trs akoo smpn Aussino dlm bilik cz takot dorg kate menunjuk la plak 6t. Pas dorg sume balik,sis panggil akoo nk cte somthing. "ko tau x td ade org tu belek2 brg ko pastu ckp bley dpt harge murah lg kt JAKEL" -sis. dlam ati akoo "jeles la tu,da kawen cukup la trime je la kenyataan yg akoo ni lg modern n style dr dia". Akoo trs call Abg Chai ttg hal ni cz sakit ati sgt cz akoo mmg xske org usik brg akoo..nyampah la.

Schedule start diz month

Td bru aku draft wed plan dan inilah hasilnye..
May (7 months b4 marriage)

• Catering *malas nk cr catering len da,gne je SRI PAYUNG CATERING pilihan mummy* - deposit DONE!

• Beli langsir & cadar kt Jakel kot

June (6 months b4 marriage)

• Jemput my parents in law which is Abg Chai nye parents dtg ke umah nk bincang lg pasal kawen2 nih.
• After dat baru la bley order kad kt USOPHOTO, mayb budget dlm 600 je. Hope bley dpt diskaun lg la kn en Gedung!huhu
• Doorgift *da survey kt MARRYME2U,nk booking 2 bende dr vendor tuh*

July (5 months b4 marriage)

• Kne beli kain utk bju family plak..family akoo,family Abg Chai, pengapit & flower girl di butik pilihan keluarga di mana lg klw bkn di ZEBA!

Aug (4 months b4 marriage)

• Time to go to TOMEI & HABIB JEWEL..yuhoo!
• Make sure bdn da betol2 slim,takot betol klw xcapai target at least 52 kg ..tatotnye. cz mummy kate nk tempah bju nikah kne 2months b4 majlis. Nasib bek dkt je kt umah..Ampang point jer!

Sept (3 months b4 marriage)

• Ni mse utk shopping!!! Ey jgn lebey2 cz budget xbyk sgt k..xlebey 2k!
• Pening plak kt mne nk cr vendor utk bunga pahar ni..tetbe aku pusing dgn warne tema. Cmne ni???? Silver,Pink,Turqoise & Purple k x?

Oct (2 months b4 marriage)

• Bedroom set..whity lily k..aku ske!
• Mse utk ke Majlis Agama di Kajang,HIV & Talesemia test..gabra sket
• Wat passport cz Abg Chai kate nk honeymoon kt _ _ _ _ _ ?

Nov (1 months b4 marriage)

• Ni adalah mse utk aku tenang kn dr kerana mse inilah mmg kne make sure sume bende da siap cz akoo sgt mls nk lyn bende2 laz minute ni..hanya memikirkan nk corak inai cmne?!huhu
• Cr barang utk di isi didlm bekas doorgift..pembekal gule2 mari dekat sme sy!

Dec!!!!

• Akoo kawen!!

Wedding Todo List

Soon after getting engaged
/ Announce your engagement to family and friends. Place engagement announcement in newspaper.

/ Set the wedding date. Establish who is contributing financially to the wedding, and fix up your budget.

/ Nominate wedding party. Arrange engagement party.

/ Decide approximate guest numbers for the wedding. Send out Save the Date invites.

/ Select and book ceremony venue. Select and book reception venue.

/ Decide on the style and theme for your wedding. Select and book photographer

/ Select and book if there are other recorders (sound, video, event data) Plan alternate plans for your wedding if it is outside (if the weather is not good for the day)

X Get information about different honeymoon destinations. Develop a record-keeping system.

/ Keep a diary of ideas. Create a scrap book of the wedding process.

/ Start to think about ceremonial vows. Consider premarital counseling.

6-12 months before

/ Shop till you drop for a wedding gown. Compile the guest list.

X Book entertainment. Plan and book honeymoon.

X Organize passports, visa and inoculations. Decide on the style of the cake, and book a cake maker.

/ Start a health program. Obtain a birth certificate if necessary.

/ Book necessary transport. Book a make-up artist.

X Book a hair stylist. Book a nail technician.

/ Look for outfits for bridesmaids, flower girls, etc.

3-6 Months before

/ Order or make wedding stationary Book all hire party equipment

X Select an MC. Finalize wedding guest list

X Finalize honeymoon details. Begin regular facial treatments.

X Select and buy wedding favors. (If you are making a wedding favor, start now.) Visit your wedding officiate, and complete the ‘Notice of intended Marriage’ form.

X Decide upon a gift registry, and compile a gift list. Choose the florist and the flowers you want.

X Book bridal suite for the wedding night Determine where you will be living after the wedding.

/ Design and organize the wedding program. Make sure all deposits are paid, and contracts signed.

1-3 Months before hand

Finalize flowers. Plan bachelor/buck’s/stag party

Plan bachelorette/hen’s party Plan bridal shower/kitchen tea

Arrange leave from work. Purchase a garter, a cake topper, a cake knife, toasting glasses and a guest book.

Purchase or borrow a pillow for the ring bearer. Meet with your photographer.

Send out invitations (at least 6-8 weeks prior to the wedding). Decide on the final wording for the ceremony vows.

Bride and groom’s parents co-ordinate outfits Watch a wedding movie to get in the mood.

Visit accountant to discuss post-wedding finical agreements Makes necessary changes to insurance polices.

Make a new will. Organize name change, if applicable

Select and confirm groom and groomsmen outfits. Schedule rehearsal dinner

Shop for or design your wedding rings. Give a list of preferred songs to your DJ/singers.

Have a hair and make-up trial.

1 Month before

Follow up any late RSVP’s. Purchase gifts for wedding party.

Organize marriage license Confirm reception, wedding, transport, flowers, DJ, MC, celebrant, hair stylist, etc.

Finalize seating arrangements, and place cards. Sending wedding guest list to reception venue

Schedule wedding gown fittings.

2-3 weeks before

Have bachelor party/stag night Have bachelorette party/hens night

Hair cut for groom Hold bridal shower

Practice wearing wedding shoes. Rehearsal dinner

Confirm all honeymoon details, and buy Travelers Cheques if needed. Confirm that all legal documents are in order (e.g. 'marriage license').

Make sure that all in the wedding party are aware of what is required of them. Select music for the ceremony.

Pick up wedding rings.

1 week before wedding day

Pick up wedding outfits. Have nails manicured.

Relax and have a massage. Pack bag/luggage for honeymoon.

Have bridesmaids prepare an emergency key for wedding. Collect all hired and borrowed items.

Pack for wedding Organize and confirm roles and responsibilities for the day.

Final facial Give that final guest count to reception center and caterers.

Write your speeches. Confirm that all services are booked and delivery times established.

Wedding Day

Eat something. Relax and enjoy every minute of your wedding day.

Thank everyone personally for their attendance and contribution to the wedding.

After the Wedding

Open and record the wedding gifts. Name change (driver license, passport, etc.)

Send out Thank You cards. Open joint banking account

Enjoy the rest of your life together.

Preparation My WED..

Gelisah la nk pk persiapan..even lambat lg but slalu xsenang hati.
1. Pelamin & make up & baju (Satri's Anggun)

2. Catering by Sri Payung (but xbyr deposit lg cz rse cm berat ati nk pilih dia but ni catering pilihan mummy..confuse nye. Xpela sabtu ni try g food test,klw ok trs byr deposit)

3. Photographer by UsopPhoto. Ni vendor wed yg pertama akoo byr deposit. Mayb Kad kawen pon order kt dia..bley la dpt free bunting.huhu

4. Door gift blm decide lg but cm berminat dgn candy kt The Wedding Heaven. Telur pindang ok x??

5. Baju nikah nk wat design sendiri yg xmemerlukan pkai veil..tggu!

6. Hantaran wat sket je..7/5. Xperlu membazir bab ni.


Ni jela senarai yg akoo terpk kn skang..yg len akan muncul utk nex post k.

Maybank ku Maybank mu jua..

Itula tajuk ku arini.huhu.Actually ctenye begini. Pada 4 May yg lepas aku ingin Cash Deposit kn duit ku utk bayaran ASB,time aku masuk kn sebanyak RM*** tetbe machine offline. Lesap abiz duit ku. Call hotline Maybank berpuluh kali lgsg xde org jwb. Hampeh sungguh,trs aku xde mood. Sok pg nye senang je aku wat EL kate nk wat report duit hilang.huhu. Yg lg geram nye ble aku g Maybank tu berlagak gle muke clerk tu,rse cm nk maki je. But xpela,da nasib.


Alang2 da cuti aku settlekn hal len. Nex station adalah KWSP. Terkujat ble tgk statement dr bln 10 sampai bln lps duit xmsk. Ble tanye HR "KWSP lmbt update" klw ye pon xkn la sampai 6bln. Tunang aku nye statement xde masalah pon..kepelikan sebentar.
'Sepandai - pandai tupai melompat akhirnye jatuh ke tanah jua'.


Then,ke Darul Zakah iaitu tempat untukku meminta bantuan bg membiayai yuran pendidikan ku di UIA. Sangat jahat ble Abg Chai kate, "nak bantuan jgn jujur sgt". Mmg ternyata aku bkn la hipokrit,xpandai menipu. Doakan aku dapat pembiayaan ni..RM4K setahun mmg sangat membantu hidup ku ini.


Malamnye aku jmpe En.Faisal dr FNI KREATIF. Nk confirmkn dgn dia utk DOORGIFT. Of course ku pilih yg terbaik dan warna2 yg ceria utk tetamu2 ku 6t. Thanx En.Faisal,6t sy anta emel n confirm order k!

Pilu & Bahagia (* -*)

Hari ku bermula dgn perasaan yg sangat tertekan. Lelaki tu xmalu utk contact aku lg. Mmg aku mengaku yg aku balas pe yg dia tanye but itu xbermakne aku ketagih dgn sume pertanyaan dia. Pe maksud dia "ingin di samping u even xdpt jadi suami u"?? Dia ingat aku ni pelacur ke? Aku masih ada pendirian n rse sayang aku xkan goyah semata kerana duit. Aku mengaku aku tengah sesak but tu xbermakne aku akan terjerat dgn syarat2 yg telah dia tetap kn. Aku perlu kn sesorang sgt td..mujur ade mak n Abg Chai. Mereka la pengubat hati aku.

Hope Allah melindungi aku dari bende2 yang xpatut. Semoga aku dgn Abg Chai dijodohkan bersame. Bile timbul masalah td,aku terpk yg aku nk percepatkn pernikahan kami. Aku akn try bincang dgn sume cz AKU SANGAT SAYANG KN ABG CHAI!!


Petang2 cm ni ble bke blog PERJALANAN 30 MEI teringat kn honeymoon kami. Abg Chai kate nk g Krabi. Td da survey kt Air Asia..tmbang g balik 4 jan sampi 7 jan 2011 jz RM432 je. Kne plan wat pasport dgn Abg Chai cpt2 ni!huhu

TAK suke!

Sampai ble nk bekerja dgn care cmni..bekerja dgn org yg xbley bg kerjasama. Ya Allah tolong la aku utk mengatasi sume ni. Agak busy arini but org still xphm..ada yg phm ok la. Ada yg asyik wat muke dgn akoo pon ade sorg tuh. Pe lg yg dia xpuas ati xtau la. Klw nk sgt job description tu amik je la akoo xkesah pon..lg ucap terima kasih ade la cz meringan kn keje aku. Sepatotnye akoo yg byk terase dgn kate2 dia yg lalu..but dia plak act cm dia teraniaya,pelik btl n akoo sgt confuse.


Akoo start xmkn nasi arini fuyoo!huhu Hope usaha aku ni berjaya la..AMIN. Da plan dgn Abg Chai nk cuti khamiz ni..byk benda nk wat.Tguuuuuuuu..

Last day..

Lonely Chilla

Aku kebosanan dan kesorangan lg..uhuk2x! Its ok,lets create sumthing nice and left d emotional part.


First,kne pk nk jawab pe dgn soalan yg Mdm Kamariah bagi ni. DUE DATE:2 MAY 2010!!!! Untuk pengetahuan korg,Chilla masih blaja di UIA sbgai pelajar part time di mane di situla pertemuan Chilla n Abg Chai. Namo cte lbh2 utk post ni la. Sakit kepala nk pk cmne nk anta sok kt ICCE. Tetbe Chilla terpk kn Zura,kawan baik ku di claz Entepreneur..huhu. Td da call Zura utk mnta tlg anta kn sme2..thanx to Zura yg sgt baik hati.


Nex,akoo still terpk cmne nk dptkn bantuan pembiayaan pelajaran dr institusi yg ada offer tuh. Mayb akoo akn defer 1 sem sbb prob ni,klw x hutang akoo still tertangguh n akoo still kne byr setiap bln. xckp rsenye RM400 kt ctu je..nk kumpul utk kawen lg. Tula,gatal sgt nk kawen muda2!!! Xpela,try tanye2 dulu,pastu ade rezeki akoo sambung la..doakan sume berjalan lancar.


Laz,akoo still mencari aturan yg bek utk hari bahagiaku. Tetapi akoo erase kecewa sket dgn ape yg berlaku. Rsenye xperlu cte di cni..sory. terlalu private.

"BEST man WIN"

VS

Still thinking

Arini aku gi ke majlis perkahwinan bakal keluarga baru ku..(kakak tunang akoo). d expectation must b grand la kn..but actually biase je,meaning im suppose do d best than diz..jealoz tgk org nye majlis..huhu

Abg Chai iaitu tunang akoo sgt la sibok sampai akoo kt ctu pon cm xwujud..agak sakit hati di ctu ble tetbe dia yg jd pengapit kakak sendiri..yela bkn nk inform kn cz akoo pon pkai bju sedondon dgn dia td..mmg jelez gle ble ade pompuan len jd pengapit dia. Ntahla,tetbe jd moody sgt n terase jauh dgn Abg Chai. Bley ke aku jd rapat dgn family dia? Sumtimez rse cm susah sgt,terase rendah diri n kelemahan diri tu kelihatan sgt..nape la akoo perlu pk yg bkn2..isk..mencinye!!

Org kate jgn ingt perkara lps,but akoo nk ingat gak perkara smlm. Hurm,kes pasal duit sales hilang n bukan dtg dr akoo. ni adalah kali kedua kejadian ni berlaku sepanjang akoo pegang jawatan yg bernama "account assistant" di kasturi klasik (m) bhd. "Panas" sgt keja pegang cash. tu yg akoo tgh mencari peluang pekerjaan bru yg asalkn xmelibatkn cash. Akoo tgh try n hope dpt la..lg dkt lg bgs cz now nk dr Ampang ke Batu Caves agak memberi kesukaran pd akoo. Malamnye ada Annual Gala Nite Dinner kt Federal Hotel. Akoo seperti biase bertemankn Abg Chai agak terlewat sket kerana menunaikan solat Maghrib sebelum bergerak ke tmpt kejadian..bkn kesalahan pon kn..huhu. Yg paling mengejutkn apabila akoo ni mendapat "lucky draw" amat mengejutkan slame hidup 22 thn ni kali pertama dapat "lucky draw" yg bernumber 0085. Lucky Abg Chai kowt!ahaks

Sok akoo plan nk g jog kt tmn berdekatan umah akoo..maklumla da rse diri ni sgt kegemukan..teringat pd kt sat,wed planner akoo..nsb ada 7 bln lg nk kuruskan dr. Tetapi Abg Chai xdpt turut serta..dia agak kesibukan dgn keramaian dirumah beliau. Kesedihan akoo sendiri..sob3x.

Abg Chai,mengertilah ku merinduimu..huhu